How to use breathing to reduce anxiety
Completely fill your lungs
Pause for a moment
Completely empty your lungs
IN - 4 SECONDS
HOLD - 2 SECONDS
OUT - 6 SECONDS
Counting the seconds on the clock while you breathe...
Now rate your anxiety out of 10.
Any change?
As a psychologist I find this simple 4 – 2 – 6 Controlled Breathing Exercise is pound-for-pound the most effective 'in the moment' anxiety reduction tool there is.
I use it myself and do it in sessions all the time. I find it re-centers me and enables me to focus on what is in front of me, not the thousands of other things my brain wants to be focussing on.
It works by attacking anxiety on three separate levels.
Your body feels good when it has the O2 it requires to operate, and the calmness of the exercise activates the parasympathetic nervous system; lowering heart rate and reducing cortisol release.
The mind seems to be able to only focus on two things simultaneously. If you tell it what to focus on - counting & breathing - it cuts out the noise of everything else.
This mindful activity centres you in the moment, so you can be more present and make more conscious decisions.
Feeling in control of your mind and your body transfers a feeling of autonomy in your life, attacking anxiety - which is generally feeling a loss of control.
When you feel like you have control in your life, you can start to take responsibility for the decisions that are yours to make, and feel like you are an active participant in your own life path.
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